21 questions that could be helpful for a new relationship:
What are your top priorities in life right now?
What do you like to do for fun?
What are your favorite hobbies or interests?
What are some of your goals or dreams for the future?
What kind of work or career are you interested in pursuing?
What kind of relationship are you looking for?
What are some of the qualities you value most in a partner?
How important is communication to you in a relationship?
How do you prefer to resolve conflicts or disagreements?
What kind of boundaries do you have when it comes to relationships?
What kind of family background do you come from?
Do you have any close friendships or support systems?
What kind of food or cuisine do you enjoy?
What kind of music or entertainment do you like?
What are some of your favorite books or movies?
Do you have any pets or animals you love?
What kind of travel experiences have you had?
What are some of the places you’d like to visit in the future?
How important is physical touch or affection to you in a relationship?
What are some of the ways you like to show love or affection to a partner?
What are some of the things that make you feel happy or fulfilled in life?
21 questions for a new relationship about money
How do you manage your finances?
What kind of financial goals do you have?
How do you feel about saving money?
Do you have any debts or outstanding loans?
What is your approach to investing?
How important is financial stability to you in a relationship?
How do you handle unexpected expenses?
What is your philosophy on credit card use?
Have you ever had financial problems in a past relationship?
What is your opinion on joint bank accounts?
How would you handle splitting expenses with a partner?
What kind of financial responsibilities would you expect from a partner?
What is your opinion on prenuptial agreements?
How would you handle financial disagreements in a relationship?
What kind of role do you see money playing in a long-term partnership?
Have you ever experienced financial hardship and if so, how did you cope with it?
What are your views on financial generosity within a relationship?
Have you ever borrowed money from family or friends, or lent money to someone?
What are your views on using money to fund hobbies, interests or leisure activities?
What are your views on gifting each other in the relationship?
What is your plan to save for the future (retirement, house, emergencies)?
21 questions for a new relationship about pets
Do you have any pets currently or have you had pets in the past?
What is your favorite type of animal and why?
What is your opinion on pets in the house?
What is your opinion on outdoor pets?
How do you feel about pets sleeping in the same bed?
What is your philosophy on pet discipline and training?
How much time do you think you can spend with a pet each day?
Are you allergic to any types of pets?
How much are you willing to spend on a pet in terms of food, toys, and veterinary care?
What is your opinion on pet insurance?
What is your view on taking pets on vacation or trips?
How do you feel about adopting versus buying pets from a store or breeder?
What is your philosophy on feeding pets table scraps?
Do you have a preference for a particular breed or type of pet?
What is your opinion on allowing pets on furniture?
How do you feel about pets in the car?
What is your view on keeping pets in a crate or enclosed space?
How do you feel about introducing pets to children or other family members?
Are you willing to provide training and care for a pet that your partner already has?
What is your opinion on pets and their impact on the environment?
How do you plan to divide pet-related responsibilities with your partner if you decide to get a pet together?
21 questions for a new relationship about family
Do you have siblings, and if so, how many and what are their ages?
How would you describe your relationship with your parents?
What is your cultural background or family heritage?
How does your family celebrate holidays or special occasions?
What are some of your favorite memories with your family?
Have you ever experienced any family conflict, and if so, how was it resolved?
What kind of family traditions do you enjoy?
Do you have any family members who live far away, and if so, how do you keep in touch with them?
Have you ever gone on a family vacation, and if so, where did you go and what did you do?
What kind of role does your family play in your life?
What are some of the things you learned from your parents or siblings growing up?
How would you describe your relationship with your extended family?
Are you close with any specific family members, and if so, who and why?
How do you handle disagreements or conflicts with your family?
What kind of family values are important to you?
Do you feel comfortable introducing your partner to your family?
What is your opinion on involving family in major life decisions?
Have you ever lived with family members as an adult?
What is your philosophy on supporting aging parents or family members in need?
How do you envision your partner interacting with your family?
What kind of relationship do you hope to have with your partner’s family?
21 questions for a new relationship about drug and alcohol use
What is your history with drug and alcohol use?
How do you feel about using drugs or alcohol in social settings?
What is your opinion on drinking alcohol on a regular basis?
Have you ever had any issues with substance abuse or addiction?
What is your view on recreational drug use?
What is your philosophy on moderation when it comes to alcohol consumption?
Have you ever experimented with drugs or alcohol, and if so, how did it affect you?
How do you feel about drinking and driving?
Do you feel comfortable being around people who are drinking or using drugs?
What is your opinion on the legalization of marijuana or other drugs?
What is your view on alcohol or drug use during pregnancy?
Have you ever had a DUI or other legal issues related to substance use?
How do you feel about people who do not drink or use drugs?
What is your opinion on smoking cigarettes or vaping?
What is your view on using prescription drugs for non-medical purposes?
How do you handle stress or difficult emotions without turning to drugs or alcohol?
What kind of support system do you have in place for maintaining sobriety or healthy habits?
Have you ever been to rehab or participated in a support group for substance abuse?
How do you feel about recreational drug use becoming more common in social settings?
What kind of boundaries or guidelines do you have for yourself when it comes to drug and alcohol use?
How do you see substance use fitting into your lifestyle in the long-term?
21 questions for a new relationship about having kids
Do you want to have kids in the future, and if so, how many?
What is your timeline for having kids, if any?
How do you feel about adoption or fostering children?
What is your philosophy on parenting and discipline?
How do you feel about using technology to conceive or carry a child?
What is your opinion on having kids at a later age?
How do you envision dividing childcare and household responsibilities with your partner?
What is your view on having a stay-at-home parent versus both parents working?
Have you ever experienced any pregnancy or childbirth complications?
What is your opinion on breastfeeding versus formula feeding?
Have you discussed any potential health or genetic issues that could impact having kids?
How do you feel about co-sleeping with a newborn or young child?
What kind of educational opportunities do you want to provide for your children?
What is your view on discipline and punishment?
How do you envision balancing work and family life with a child?
What kind of environment or neighborhood do you want to raise your child in?
How do you feel about having a child with a disability or special needs?
What kind of family traditions or rituals do you want to establish with your child?
What kind of role do you want extended family members to play in your child’s life?
How do you see parenting fitting into your lifestyle in the long-term?
Have you talked about potential names for your future child?
21 questions for a new relationship about religion or faith
What is your religious background or upbringing?
How do you currently practice or identify with your religion?
What is your opinion on organized religion and attending religious services?
What kind of religious beliefs or practices are important to you?
Have you ever experienced any conflicts with people of different religious beliefs?
What is your opinion on dating someone with a different religious background?
How do you feel about raising children with religious beliefs?
What is your view on interfaith marriage?
How do you feel about participating in religious holidays or traditions?
What kind of role does religion play in your life?
Have you ever questioned or changed your religious beliefs?
How do you feel about discussing religion with others?
What kind of religious community or support system do you have?
What is your view on the separation of church and state?
How do you feel about religious symbols or artifacts in public spaces?
Have you ever participated in a religious pilgrimage or spiritual journey?
How do you feel about conversion to a different religion?
What kind of values or principles do you associate with your religion?
What is your opinion on the role of religion in politics?
How do you see religion fitting into your lifestyle in the long-term?
Have you discussed potential religious practices or beliefs that could impact your relationship?
21 questions for a new relationship about politics
What is your political affiliation?
What are your most important political issues or causes?
How do you feel about discussing politics with others?
Have you ever participated in political activism or volunteering?
What is your opinion on the role of government in society?
How do you feel about political polarization and the divide in society?
What is your view on voting and civic engagement?
How do you feel about the media and its coverage of politics?
What kind of political policies or initiatives do you support?
Have you ever had political disagreements with family or friends?
What is your opinion on political correctness and cancel culture?
How do you feel about third-party candidates or independent voters?
What is your view on immigration and border control policies?
How do you feel about climate change and environmental policies?
What is your opinion on social justice and equality issues?
How do you feel about foreign policy and international relations?
What is your view on gun control and the Second Amendment?
How do you feel about healthcare and social welfare policies?
What is your opinion on the role of the Supreme Court and judicial activism?
How do you see politics fitting into your lifestyle in the long-term?
Have you discussed potential political differences that could impact your relationship?
21 questions for a new relationship about dating
What are your expectations for dating and relationships?
How do you typically approach dating?
What are some of your past dating experiences that have shaped your views on dating?
How important is physical attraction to you in a relationship?
What is your ideal way to spend a date night?
What are your thoughts on online dating and dating apps?
How do you feel about going on dates with multiple people at once?
What are your opinions on gender roles in dating?
What is your view on casual dating versus committed relationships?
Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship?
How do you feel about public displays of affection?
What is your opinion on dating someone with children?
How do you feel about dating someone with a different cultural background?
What is your view on taking a break in a relationship?
How do you feel about discussing past relationships with your current partner?
What is your opinion on marriage and commitment in a relationship?
How do you feel about meeting the parents of your partner?
What is your view on jealousy and trust in a relationship?
How do you feel about discussing finances in a relationship?
What is your opinion on taking a break from dating altogether?
Have you discussed potential dating differences or expectations that could impact your relationship?
21 questions for a new relationship about sex
What are your sexual preferences and interests?
What is your view on sexual intimacy in a relationship?
How important is sex to you in a relationship?
What are your thoughts on sexual exploration and experimentation?
How do you feel about initiating sex or being the one to receive initiation?
What is your view on foreplay and its role in sexual experiences?
How do you feel about public displays of affection and sexuality?
What is your opinion on sexual fantasies and fetishes?
How do you feel about using sex toys in the bedroom?
What is your view on pornography and its place in a relationship?
How do you feel about practicing safe sex and using protection?
What is your opinion on discussing sexual history and past partners?
How do you feel about initiating conversations about sexual desires and needs?
What is your view on masturbation and its role in a relationship?
How do you feel about having sex outside of a committed relationship?
What is your opinion on communicating during sex?
How do you feel about orgasm and its importance in a sexual experience?
What is your view on the frequency of sex in a relationship?
How do you feel about scheduling sex and planning sexual experiences?
What is your opinion on trying new sexual experiences or role-playing?
Have you discussed potential sexual differences or expectations that could impact your relationship?
21 questions for a new relationship about cheating
What is your definition of cheating?
How do you feel about emotional infidelity versus physical infidelity?
What are your thoughts on cheating in a committed relationship?
How important is trust to you in a relationship?
What is your view on flirting with other people while in a relationship?
How do you feel about remaining friends with an ex-partner while in a relationship?
What is your opinion on keeping secrets from your partner?
How do you feel about disclosing a history of cheating to a new partner?
What is your view on giving or receiving gifts from someone outside of the relationship?
How do you feel about following or connecting with an ex-partner on social media?
What is your opinion on online cheating or sexting with someone outside of the relationship?
How do you feel about going out alone with someone of the opposite sex?
What is your view on cheating in the context of an open or non-monogamous relationship?
How do you feel about forgiving a partner who has cheated on you?
What is your opinion on the potential for cheating when one partner travels frequently?
How do you feel about the potential for cheating when one partner works closely with someone of the opposite sex?
What is your view on taking a break in a relationship as a way to avoid cheating?
How do you feel about discussing cheating and infidelity in a relationship before it happens?
What is your opinion on the use of technology to monitor a partner’s potential cheating behavior?
How do you feel about establishing boundaries with your partner to prevent cheating?
Have you discussed potential cheating concerns or expectations that could impact your relationship?
21 questions that could be helpful for a new relationship regarding using a matchmaker
Have you ever used a matchmaker before? If so, what was your experience like?
What motivated you to seek out a matchmaker for your current relationship?
What qualities are you looking for in a potential partner and how have you communicated these to your matchmaker?
How involved do you want to be in the matchmaking process and what level of communication do you expect from your matchmaker?
What is your budget for using a matchmaker and what services are you looking for?
How important is compatibility testing or personality assessment in the matchmaking process?
What is your view on the potential for a matchmaker to help you find a long-term, committed relationship?
How do you feel about disclosing personal and relationship information to a matchmaker and how much information do you feel comfortable sharing?
What is your opinion on the level of confidentiality and privacy you can expect when using a matchmaker?
How do you feel about meeting potential partners in person versus through virtual means, such as video chat or email?
What is your view on the role of communication and feedback in the matchmaking process?
How do you feel about the potential for geographic or cultural differences between potential partners and how has your matchmaker addressed these concerns?
What is your opinion on the potential for rejection or disappointment in the matchmaking process?
How do you feel about discussing expectations and deal-breakers with your matchmaker?
What is your view on the potential for a matchmaker to provide ongoing relationship support and advice?
How do you feel about the potential for a matchmaker to provide additional services, such as coaching or image consulting?
What is your opinion on the potential for using a matchmaker to save time and effort in the dating process?
How do you feel about involving friends or family members in matchmaking?
What is your view on the potential for using a matchmaker to overcome personal obstacles or challenges in finding a partner?
How do you feel about the potential for a matchmaker to provide access to exclusive events or social circles?
Have you discussed potential concerns or expectations regarding using a matchmaker that could impact your new relationship?
21 questions for a new relationship about divorce
Have you ever been married or in a long-term committed relationship?
What was the reason for your previous relationship ending?
How long ago was your last relationship and how long did it last?
What have you learned from your previous relationship and how have you grown as a person?
Do you have any children from your previous relationship? If so, what is your co-parenting arrangement?
What is your opinion on the divorce process and its impact on families?
How do you feel about dating someone who has been divorced or has children from a previous relationship?
What is your view on the potential for a new relationship to impact your relationship with your ex-partner or co-parent?
How do you feel about sharing financial responsibilities and assets in a relationship after experiencing divorce?
What is your opinion on the potential for remarriage or long-term commitment after experiencing divorce?
How do you feel about discussing previous relationship baggage and concerns with a new partner?
What is your view on establishing trust in a new relationship after experiencing divorce?
How do you feel about disclosing information about past infidelity or trust issues with a new partner?
What is your opinion on sharing household and familial responsibilities in a relationship after experiencing divorce?
How do you feel about discussing potential future family planning, including remarriage and blending families, with a new partner?
What is your view on seeking professional counseling or therapy for relationship issues?
How do you feel about discussing potential deal-breakers in a relationship, including the potential for separation or divorce?
What is your opinion on balancing personal and relationship needs after experiencing divorce?
How do you feel about discussing and setting clear boundaries with a new partner after experiencing divorce?
What is your view on the potential for past relationship experiences to impact a new relationship?
Have you discussed potential concerns or expectations regarding divorce that could impact your new relationship?
21 questions that could be helpful for a new relationship regarding using a dating coach
Have you ever used a dating coach before? If so, what was your experience like?
What motivated you to seek out a dating coach for your current relationship?
What specific dating challenges are you hoping to address with a dating coach?
How involved do you want to be in the coaching process and what level of communication do you expect from your coach?
What is your budget for using a dating coach and what services are you looking for?
How important is compatibility testing or personality assessment in the coaching process?
What is your view on the potential for a dating coach to help you find a long-term, committed relationship?
How do you feel about disclosing personal and relationship information to a dating coach and how much information do you feel comfortable sharing?
What is your opinion on the level of confidentiality and privacy you can expect when using a dating coach?
How do you feel about meeting potential partners in person versus through virtual means, such as video chat or email?
What is your view on the role of communication and feedback in the coaching process?
How do you feel about the potential for geographic or cultural differences between potential partners and how has your coach addressed these concerns?
What is your opinion on the potential for rejection or disappointment in the coaching process?
How do you feel about discussing expectations and deal-breakers with your coach?
What is your view on the potential for a dating coach to provide ongoing relationship support and advice?
How do you feel about the potential for a dating coach to provide additional services, such as coaching on confidence or image consulting?
What is your opinion on the potential for using a dating coach to save time and effort in the dating process?
How do you feel about involving friends or family members in the coaching process?
What is your view on the potential for using a dating coach to overcome personal obstacles or challenges in dating?
How do you feel about the potential for a dating coach to provide access to exclusive events or social circles?
Have you discussed potential concerns or expectations regarding using a dating coach that could impact your new relationship?
21 questions that could be helpful for a new relationship regarding using an image consultant
Have you ever used an image consultant before? If so, what was your experience like?
What motivated you to seek out an image consultant for your current relationship?
What specific image-related challenges are you hoping to address with an image consultant?
How involved do you want to be in the consultation process and what level of communication do you expect from your consultant?
What is your budget for using an image consultant and what services are you looking for?
How important is personal style and fashion sense to you and how much guidance do you expect from your consultant in these areas?
What is your view on the potential for an image consultant to help you improve your confidence and self-esteem?
How do you feel about disclosing personal information and preferences to an image consultant and how much information do you feel comfortable sharing?
What is your opinion on the level of confidentiality and privacy you can expect when using an image consultant?
How do you feel about involving your partner in the consultation process and how much input do you want them to have?
What is your view on the potential for geographic or cultural differences between personal style and fashion trends and how has your consultant addressed these concerns?
How do you feel about the consultation process’s potential for rejection or disappointment?
How important is it to you that your consultant is up-to-date on current fashion trends and industry standards?
How do you feel about discussing expectations and goals with your consultant?
What is your view on the potential for an image consultant to provide ongoing support and advice?
How do you feel about the potential for an image consultant to provide advice on personal grooming and hygiene?
What is your opinion on the potential for using an image consultant to improve your professional image and career prospects?
How do you feel about involving friends or family members in the consultation process?
What is your view on the potential for using an image consultant to overcome personal obstacles or challenges related to personal appearance?
How do you feel about the potential for an image consultant to provide advice on body language, communication skills, and other non-verbal cues?
Have you discussed potential concerns or expectations regarding using an image consultant that could impact your new relationship?
